I have moved away from Buzzfeed for the time being, and I found this other site that makes lists (I do love lists). 21 Things You Suddenly Start Wanting In Your Mid-20’s. What I found interesting is that this is pretty much a random list of things people would want at any age, and half of these I either wanted and/or had by the time I turned 18. Maybe I didn’t develop properly.
1. A job where you have to wear something nice.
I have been what you would consider “overdressed” since elementary school, and even when I worked part time for minimum wage, I still dressed well. Yes, I understand the implication that having a job which mandates dressing well means it is a nice job, I have to say this is an incorrect inference. I had a friend in undergrad who worked as a waitress at a local restaurant. She was getting paid minimum wage (plus tips of course), and was expected to wear cocktail dresses and fancy shoes. She hated everything about her job except for her attire.
Ok, I do have to agree with this one. I discovered sangria in my early 20’s, and had a very good first experience with it.
3. At least a few hours of precious weekend time to browse home decorating websites.
I have never had the desire to browse decorating sites for any extended period of time. Maybe this want will develop in me later on in my 50’s or something.
4. Dinner parties.
Again, I am not sure what this has to do with the 20’s. I loved helping my mom prep for dinner parties for as far back as I have memories.
5. A hearty breakfast.
Nope. Never was a breakfast person, still not, probably won’t be.
6. Classic jazz.
Playing the piano got me into classic jazz long before my mid 20’s.
7. A desk to work at.
I think in my mid 20’s I started appreciating my desk… but I had had one for several years already.
8. A decent amount of time to do everything.
You would think that by the time someone got into their mid-20’s they would know that there is never enough time… for anything. Granted I learned the lesson when I got to college, and I know not everyone goes to college, I am sure there are equivalent lessons learned through other means.
9. Friends who work in the same industry as you.
Not really. No. In fact I have only recently joined most of my friends in their pursuits. A large part of my friends got their doctorates long ago and have been teaching at universities for years. I have only just now began it all. At no point in my previous career would I have wished my friends to join me.
10. Functional clothes to wear to weddings.
There is nothing functional about a wedding. And considering I have been a bridesmaid to almost every wedding I have attended… well…. you try finding a functional bridesmaid dress.
11. Throw pillows.
I have an interesting on and off relationship with throw pillows, but I am not entirely sure when it started. I think we are kind of on right now.
12. A blender.
Yes. I did get my first blender in my mid 2o’s. Coincidently it was also the first time I lived by myself. Hrm…
Um… I am pretty sure I have always wanted/enjoyed/participated in activities. I assure you I did not spend the first 20+ years of my life in a cave.
Yes, I did take up yoga in my mid 20’s. I would like to some day take it up again.
15. Someone to wake up next to.
Again, not something I feel is particular to being in your mid-20’s.
16. An iPad.
Um… well… considering they didn’t exist, I did not want an iPad in my mid 20’s. However, I don’t own one, nor want one now either.
17. A calendar.
No, I like organizing things and making lists entirely too much not have wanted a calendar far sooner than my 20’s.
18. Bottomless brunch.
Are you kidding? I have wanted bottomless meals since the day I was born!
19. A cute travel mug.
Nope, my coffee cup fetish began when I was still in my teens. By the time I reached my mid-20’s I was a travel mug connoisseur.
20. A good knowledge of wine bars.
Actually I didn’t even know these things existed until about two years ago. However, I have found a favorite one and have so far gone there multiple times with Tanya, Hannah, and Mary. Stephanie and Allie are next.
I am a creature of habit. Routine has been my favorite thing since forever.